Sexual arousal in men: how to understand that your partner is aroused

Intimacy with a woman causes sexual arousal in a man

Sexual intercourse is an important part of a healthy man's life. Sexual stimulation in men can occur under the influence of various factors: the appearance of a woman, erotic touch, memories of past intimacy. The sexual reaction to stronger sex is a combination of physiological and emotional outbursts that will eventually lead to orgasm.

Signs of passion in men

Sexual arousal is the human body's response to sexual stimulation. Its strength and duration depend on hormone levels, well-being, and anthropological characteristics (height, hair color).

The desire that arises in its manifestation resembles pressure:

A man is excited given by his reaction and behavior
  • breathing rhythm and heart rate increase;
  • dilated pupils;
  • voice and behavior changes;
  • blood pressure increases;
  • muscle tension occurs;
  • goosebumps appear on the skin;
  • increased salivation.

Excitation process:

    A man with signs of sexual desire
  1. In men, the main sign of sexual desire is penile erection. Blood flow increases the length and diameter of the organ several times. The increase in length is an individual indicator; the small penis increases more during erection. It straightens and hardens. The changes that occur contribute to the entry of the penis into the vagina.
  2. With the transition to intimacy, a man's passion increases, and with it all body reactions. Heart rate, blood pressure and muscle tension increase. The rhythmic friction of the penis against the vaginal wall is a strong irritant.
  3. To prolong sexual intercourse, it is recommended to temporarily stop friction to reduce tension. Discharge appears on a tense penis, which is not something to be afraid of. This is the pre-seminal fluid that plays an important role in conception.
  4. Orgasm is the peak of pleasure; it is the shortest moment of sexual response, lasting only a few seconds. It is accompanied by an eruption of semen. In men, the muscles of the body contract, various sounds may involuntarily escape, and a feeling of euphoria appears.
  5. The release of semen occurs due to the rhythmic contraction of smooth muscles. It starts with a small portion, gradually increasing the amount of sperm. After the first jolt, nothing will stop the man from completing the ejaculation. Each surge is accompanied by sexual pleasure, especially in the head and body of the penis.
  6. After orgasm, the body returns to normal. The muscles relax, blood flows out of the penis, and the size of the organ decreases. The refractory period begins, during which the man is not aroused even by physical impact on the penis.
  7. The refraction phase is the time it takes the stronger sex to recover before a new erection. It has no specific duration and can range from a few minutes to hours. With age, this gap increases. The angle of elevation of the penis in most cases reaches 60-90 degrees. The maximum peak occurs at 20 years, and after 50 the angle significantly decreases.

Discharge in men when excited

Clear viscous discharge from an erect penis is a normal physiological process. Lubrication in men during stimulation occurs with the help of pre-ejaculation. This sticky, colorless liquid is released through the urethra in preparation for intercourse or during masturbation.

The source of lubrication is Cooper's gland. Their secretions contain a lot of enzymes and mucus.

Transparent secrets perform several functions:

  • separates residual urine in the urethra;
  • partially neutralizes the acidic environment of the vagina;
  • lubricates the urethra for the passage of sperm;
  • Vaginal discharge promotes painless sexual intercourse.

The amount of lubrication varies significantly between men. It can range from a few drops to 5 ml or more. The main purpose of pre-ejaculation is to provide a good environment for sperm. Pre-seminal fluid neutralizes the acidity of the vagina, increasing the survival of sperm and the chances of conceiving a child.

When aroused, men experience discharge from the penis

For couples who prefer to interrupt intercourse for contraception, the question arises about the possibility of pregnancy if the lubricant comes into contact with them. Studies on the composition of pre-ejaculate have shown that there are no seeds in it. But with repeated sexual intercourse, the seminal fluid stored in the urethra enters the discharge.

Lack or excess lubrication in men does not affect their sexual relations. Any manifestation is individual, there is no strict template that you need to fit. Enjoy intimacy without fear or prejudice.

One type of glans "lubrication" is smegma. This discharge is not related to sexual stimulation. The white fat-like substance facilitates the movement of the head of the penis as it exits the foreskin. But a large accumulation of smegma causes inflammation of the skin of the penis and other problems. To prevent this from happening, it is necessary to wash off the smegma every day.

How to stimulate men

Male sexual desire depends on many factors. If in his youth he was animated by thoughts of intimacy alone, then with age this becomes insufficient.

To increase the partner's libido, a woman needs a certain release or stimulation. It's a man's nature to judge visually, so strike an alluring pose to excite men, wear seductive lingerie, let your hair down. The sight of naked female organs and signs of desire from a partner also contribute to the emergence of reciprocal impulses.

Various stimuli help to cause stronger sexual arousal:

  • hearing;
  • visual;
  • olfaction;
  • touch;
  • erotic fantasy, movies and more.

You need to approach the awakening of sexual desire in a man individually.

Under the influence of negative factors, sexual activity in men decreases
  1. To do this, it is worth studying his habits and preferences in music, food, aroma, etc. Aphrodisiacs help increase desire, this can be spices, food, drinks, aromatic oils.
  2. Among the recognized pathogens of sexual activity: nuts, seafood, wine, herbs, herbs, fruits.
  3. The aroma of patchouli oil increases arousal and testosterone production. Young people will appreciate the aroma of tangerine, verbena or cedar oil; mature couples will like juniper or sandalwood.
  4. Before preparing a romantic night with aroma lamps, you need to know if the chosen one is allergic to the aphrodisiacs provided.
  5. For some men, words can be a powerful stimulant. Certain phrases, from subtle signs of intimacy to overt lust, evoke sexual activity in a partner. Directness is appropriate when communicating with a known object of passion, and any man will love to talk about sexuality or compliment the appearance.
  6. Touch of varying intensity is a direct way to arouse a partner. Monotony is detrimental to sexual activity; to attract the desired man, a woman needs to experiment.
  7. You can start with a relaxing massage, gradually covering various zones and erogenous points. Touching breasts and nipples turns on the stronger sex no less than women. Give your partner the full range of sensations from gentle stroking and kissing to biting.
  8. Do not skip the back and buttocks - here a light massage can end with sensitive strokes with nails.
  9. Inner thighs are another source of pleasure for men; soft or hard touch is chosen by the partner himself. For caressing, you need to use not only your hands and lips, but your whole body. The male abdomen is one of the most erogenous zones. Exploring its language will be a real pleasure. The partner's proximity to the penis, lethargy and anticipation will quickly cause an erection.
  10. The penis is the erogenous zone for every man; its stimulation will surely lead to the peak of happiness. The most sensitive and delicate part of the organ is the head. The touch and stimulation with his tongue will make your partner forget everything in the world. Having learned the most sensitive things of a man, you can give him real pleasure.

Stimulant drugs

Why do men experience decreased sexual activity? There are many answers to this question: stress, past illnesses, age, fatigue and other reasons.

Pills for men to stimulate sexual desire will perfectly cope with the problem:

Taking stimulants will give men an erection again
  • A leader among stimulants. The pill, which was originally created to treat heart problems, has quickly become a powerful stimulant.
  • Medicines from the group of PDE-5 inhibitors, the active component of which improves erection. This drug does not affect the function of the heart and liver, nor does it change the composition of sperm.
  • Chinese medicine based on ginseng and deer antler, which has fewer side effects.

Consequences of excitement without release

Sexual stimulation does not always end with intercourse. The body, ready to be released by orgasm, remains in an overexcited state. If such a situation occurs only once, there is nothing to fear; it does not threaten health and potency.

What a man feels when he is aroused without release:

  1. discomfort or pain in the testicles, mild swelling;
  2. discomfort in the penis;
  3. tingling in the back of the head;
  4. lower abdominal pain.

Of these symptoms, pain in the testicles deserves special attention. This organ is important for men's health. It is responsible for the production of testosterone and sperm. If the genitals are healthy, the discomfort will disappear after 4 hours.

Pain in the testicles can be a sign of disease. If their size, density has changed, or the pain has become sharp and severe, then you need to visit a doctor.

Sexual desire is an important part of a person's sexual life. When a man is aroused, it is better to use several methods, alternating their sequence. This will give amazing results.