Women's G-spots are legendary, but what about men? Turns out there is too. In this article we will tell you where it is and how to stimulate it properly.
What is the male G-spot
Oh yes, the male G-spot is real. This is not fiction and is not an attempt to attract as many readers as possible. Another question is what would be more accurate to call it the P point. And to most laymen, it is known as the prostate.
The prostate is located between the base of the penis and the rectum, a walnut-sized gland that men need to produce sperm. The secret is that there are many nerve endings in the prostate, which makes it the ideal point for maximum pleasure.
This, by the way, is confirmed by research: scientists have found that the prostate orgasm causes 12 muscle contractions, while the penis orgasm - only 3-5 contractions. In other words, if you connect the prostate to sexual play, a man can have an orgasm two (or three) times stronger than usual.
How to set up a search
Many men are full of prejudices related to anal sex. Although prostate stimulation, of course, cannot change the heterosexual orientation (and if it can, then he is not so heterosexual after all). Therefore, if you want to find the P point, first of all you need to get your partner's consent. In addition, experts advise to tell in detail what you plan to do so that he can make an informed decision.
Since the anus does not produce natural lubrication, it is important to make sure that you have a water-based lubricant on hand (preferably tasteless and odorless, so as not to accidentally irritate the skin). Also, be sure to file your nails to avoid damaging delicate areas, or at least use gloves as a barrier.
Stimulus Rules
So now you know where the P spot is and your man doesn't mind trying. What's next? It can be difficult for beginners to decide on their own about the right course of action, so use the following techniques:
- "come here" movement.By making movements with your index finger, as if you are asking someone to come, you can stimulate the prostate gently enough not to scare your partner, but at the same time active enough to give him a new sensation. Start slowly and then increase your speed.
- Circle and shake.Circular and rocking movements also work well, and the speed should also be gradually accelerated. Keep in mind that too much pressure on the prostate can cause the urge to go to the toilet, so it's good for a man to empty his bladder before having sex.
- Sex toys.If you don't want to go anywhere with your fingers, but you want to try, use a massager for anal play. With them, in the same way, you can change the speed and type of vibration, so that the couple does not lose anything, but also vice versa.
In conclusion, we remember once again that body parts have no sexual orientation, so couples can safely have anal sex in both directions. And we note separately that if in the process the partner says that he does not like it and needs to stop, you should listen to him. In the end, we are all different. You can try it when it's ready again, but for now, do something that always gives you pleasure.